Twin Flame Rules I Live By
I have written about the Twin Flame Journey a number of times, and believe you me it’s always fun. It’s such a dynamic journey, full of ups and downs, and the lessons that we need to learn in order to truly reach or best selves. I’m not going to bother repeating information.
However I did want to share a short article, related to the rules I have come to appreciate while on the Twin Journey. By no means are these rules absolute, they are simply things I have learned, often through pain and suffering. So here we go :).
Rule One : The Journey Is Intense
There are a lot of people, who think the Twin Flame Journey will be easy… It IS NOT!!!! It is a dynamic journey, full of many wonderful and insightful experiences, but it’s far from easy.
Often you and your twin, will constantly trigger each other in the most ridiculously simple ways. Resulting in mole hills becoming vast mountain passes that appear to divide the two of you. But in reality, nothing can divide you, and the triggering is part of the healing process for both of you.
Rule Two : Your Twin Is Unique
Although you and your twin are ultimately one, they will still be beautifully unique, and often have different thoughts and opinions from yourself. They are not there to agree with you about everything, or to enhance your ego. They are there to grow with you, as you both are working to resolve Karma and past wounds.
Rule Three : Silence Is A Good Thing
I will admit, that I’m the twin who loves to always talk. When it comes to my Twin anyway…. I’ve always loved talking to her, hearing her, hearing her adorable voice in my head when we talk via text.
While my twin loves communication too, she also loves her space and silence. This at times, causes us to butt heads.
Although I’ve finally gotten to a point where I’m finding the silence is a good thing. Twins are always communicating back and forth telepathically, due to the fact that they are always linked. As such you don’t necessarily need to psychically interact, to know how they are doing, and in many ways you begin to feel the connection more during periods of silence.
Rule Four : You Both Have Wounds And Insecurities
While one twin may appear to be less wounded, or have less Karma to work through. You should remember you two are One! As such you should always support your twin. Don’t let them walk all over you…But support them..
Also, just because one twin may seem like they have resolved more of their issues, doesn’t mean that’s actually true. They could just be hiding them better. But even if it is the case, there is always something they can improve upon….Always.
Rule Five : The Fights Will Be Epic
Face it, if you are interacting with your twin, you’re going to fight at times. This does not mean, they are not your twin. When this occurs, it’s usually because egos are clashing.
Both my twin and I, can be extremely hard headed, especially when it comes to each other. At times we don’t like to admit when the other was right about something. Yet, we eventually let the conflict go, and learn more about ourselves by having gone through the experience.
Rule Six: The Universe Will Remind You Of How Special Your Connection To Your Twin Is
This one always amazes me. Usually when I have had a fight or argument with my twin, and have attempted to close myself off to her… Eventually the “Universe”, reminds me of how stubborn I’m being. Fun fact, I don’t call my twin by her first name, I have a couple nick names for her.
In one situation I was at a store, and at the end of an isle I was walking down, there was a case of drinks called “Izze”. Well one of the nick names I have for my twin is “Izzy”. When I saw the drinks, I did a double take and actually smiled, even though I had been annoyed with her.
Shortly after that I was on a highway heading home, and there was a huge billboard overlooking the road. I kid you not, it was for an advertisement called “Vizzy”. When things like this occur, I reflect on how special my twin really is.
Rule Seven: You Can Share Anything With Your Twin
When I say anything, I mean anything, your twin will never judge you. My twin knows some of my most deepest wounds and insecurities, and yet she has never made fun of me about them. Or used them to hurt me. Even when we have really pissed each other off, we have never attacked each other personally.
Rule Eight: You’re Twin Will Always Come Back
No matter what, your twin will always come back. Even if you have been in the fight of all fights, twins always come back to each other. After all you two are ONE. They will always be there.
Rule Nine: You Will Both Run…..
There is a lot of talk regarding the Runner/Chaser phase of the Twin Journey. Truth be told though, you will both run at times. Even though I would like to say, my twin runs more….. I know I have ran just as much at times.
Often because I would think things like,”Why would my twin, want me around”. Or out of fear of letting my twin in. Abandonment issues are common between twins, so they tend to not want to open up to each other at first, due to the fear of potential loss down the road.
Rule Ten: Your Twin Really Does Love You
It may not seem like it at times, but your twin absolutely does love you. Even during the worst twin moments, they still love you. In fact that’s the beauty of the journey, it’s the basis for unconditional love. Unconditional Love between twins is powerful….
